Greetings from Indonesia! This is my first post since arriving in Indonesia, and I’m going to post as frequently as I can. This blog is about my project, the Indonesians and foreigners I meet, culture, politics and my reactions to all the above. I imagine this last part, my reactions to my environment, will be quite candid. Culture shock and missing home are inevitable, and important to reflect upon, as are the little triumphs – having my first successful conversation in Indonesian or finding my way from my apartment to the mall (which I just did yesterday!).
I’ve been here since Tuesday – Jakarta for three days and I arrived in Yogyakarta yesterday night. My excitement to write about what happened during my first few days has abated since. It’s because I’m having trouble deciding where to start. I feel like a pedestrian at the intersection of a busy street unable to know when to make the move. My thoughts are like traffic coming at me in every direction.
I’ll just say three things: hospitality, traffic and tobacco.
Salamat Datang (Welcome)
What’s the purpose of hospitality? It’s about making someone feel welcome. All the staff members at Fulbright welcomed me warmly, and have helped me through the registration process every step of the way. It’s a hairy process. As a foreign researcher I’m required to register at the police station, the ministry of home affairs, the immigration office and the governors office. Not going to go into the details because they are boring. I’m grateful that someone is helping me because alone, in addition to looking like a helpless goof, I wouldn’t be able to get it done. Gotta work on learning Indonesian.
One last comment about hospitality here. The professor (Dr. Hari Kusnanto) hosting me at University Gadjah Mada drove me to the mall after I mentioned I needed to buy a pair of pants. He waited for 45 minutes in the mall during the middle of his day! And his days are always packed. This leads me to believe that I’m going to have to be more careful when talking about things I need. Otherwise I’ll be putting people out. From my limited observations thus far, hospitality appears to be strongly rooted in Indonesian cultural values. So strongly that people will often do favors for others even if it means they sacrifice something of their own – be it time, money or whatever. Even though Professor Kusnanto genuinely wanted to help me find my way to the mall (he was concerned I would get lost and feels personally responsible) I know he was making time for me that he didn’t have.
Look both ways, or just run for it
At my first meeting with the Fulbright director in Jakarta I learned about my two greatest dangers here. I expected the first one: I’m in the ring of fire – Indonesia is prone to natural disaster. Interested to know what the NY Times has covered on Indonesia I typed Indonesia in the Times search engine and almost every article’s headline read something like “boat sinks” or “plane crashed and no luck finding passengers” and “Indonesian’s wait for humanitarian aid after the Tsunami”… Breathe… I tell myself the Times must be biased towards these sorts of stories because Indonesia isn’t heavily covered in the US media. In reality yes, I’m concerned, but what scares me more here is traffic! There are few sidewalks in Yogyakarta (the city I stay in) and I will avoid the streets on foot or by bike (motor bike or bicycle) whenEVER possible. That was the second warning from the director, traffic.
cough cough
The mental images we get when something strikes us as particularly funny, sad, extreme, ironic – let’s call them lucid memories. I’ve had a lot of them since being here; strangely, or unexpectedly I should say, my first week is full of lucid memories of people smoking. I walked off the plane and there was a no smoking sign on a wall in the airport. A group of men sat together, talking, laughing, and ALL of them were smoking cigarrettes. My first thought: smoking regulations aren’t strictly enforced here. Now I’m paying attention to smoking inside. I notice it more since it’s been banned in public spaces in major cities in the US.
Here’s another encounter with tobacco. Rizma, my program director takes me to the ministry of home affairs to register. We enter a room full of cubicles, a man sits at his computer and leans back into his chair to take a puff of a cigarette as I walk by. The entire room has a noxious smell and I cough a few times. People smoke on the streets, in their cars, in lounges, while working, on the telephone, and it isn’t hard to imagine people smoking in the bathroom. Second thought: Indonesians like to smoke, or cigarettes are easily accessible or cheap…all of the above?
It’s not as easy to conjure an image of a woman smoking. Haven’t seen that much. Still haven’t figured out why, if it has to do with Islam or just a social norm/expectation. That’s something I’ll get back to you about. Another thought: smoking is a masculine activity here, perhaps women are discouraged from doing it.
Thanks for reading my first post. Would love to hear your comments, reactions, questions. Want to keep this interactive.